My first question was “But are these stories true?” Does it matter if these stories are true or not — as long as the Feel-good message is good? Why would anyone doubt such an authoritative voice? Can anyone say for certain that they are not true? Well, frankly, I don’t care. I have no interest at all in doing any harm to other people’s Feel-Goodisms. I just like to look stuff up and I’m curious: When it comes to the truth, does this video Pass or Fail? So let’s have a look at these claims. (References available.)
True story: The only facts that are really known for sure is that she didn’t continue drama school. There isn’t any evidence at all that she was “dismissed” and it seems more likely she just went home and went back to her regular school. There was a letter sent to her mother but by all accounts the school made disparaging remarks about most of its students and Ball didn’t ever mention the letter as being of any influence, despite talking and writing about the experience quite a few times. Feel-Good Video Fail.
Claim #2: The Beatles were turned down by Decca, who said they didn’t like their sound.
True story: I’m going to give Feel-Good a passing grade on this one, even though they slightly changed the “guitar groups” quote. The story is basically true as told. Feel-Good Video Pass.
True story: Grant was a successful soldier. He graduated from West Point, served bravely and honorably in war, and resigned with the rank of captain. Like many veterans, he had trouble finding and keeping a good job. The description of him as a “failed soldier” is, quite simply, false. Feel-Good Video Fail.
Claim #4: Michael Jordan was “cut from the high school basketball team”.
Claim #5: Thomas Edison was called “too stupid to learn anything” by a teacher.
Claim #6: Walt Disney was fired from a newspaper and told he “lacked imagination” and had “no original ideas”.
Claim #7: Lincoln suffered various failures in his life, including having his fiancé die, failing at business, losing many elections, having a nervous breakdown.
Personally, I find the true stories much more interesting. For example, Jordan did apparently feel like a failure when he didn’t get on the varsity team. But the message of the story should be that it wasn’t a failure at all. The same goes for Ball: Nearly all of the members of Ball’s class failed or dropped out. So dropping out of that school was just normal, not a failure. Grant went back to soldiering and on to be the president of the US because he had been a successful soldier, not because he’d failed at it. So, all together, that’s 1 for 7. Only the Beatles story is true as told. The rest are either exaggerated, unverifiable tales, or outright falsehoods. I’d call that a big Fail. Don’t take it so bad, though, Feel-Good. It’s a great example of multiple failure.
Tags: beatles, biography, disney, failure, lincoln, lucille ball, michael jordan, thomas edison, ulysses s grant, urban legends
May 30, 2014 at 12:55 pm |
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June 10, 2014 at 10:04 am |
With the exception of michael jordan and perhaps one or two more. I bet the essence of the stories are true, In that almost definitely anyone that is gifted or creative will face opposition and criticism. They probably wanted Jordan on the J.V. team because they needed a great player. But even MJ and in my opinion every successful person I know is driven by doubt. In most cases I think self doubt is the most motivational kind. Ben Affleck dropped out of college cause the teacher laughed at the draft for good will hunting. Maybe or maybe not but some where a teacher laughed I am almost certain. 🙂